Event Details
Self-Coaching for HR Leaders: Do the Work Without the Work Doing You
| Date: | March 18, 2026, 7:30am – 10:00am |
| Organizer: | Rogue Valley SHRM |
| Location: | Harry and David Employment Center 2800 S. Pacific Hwy. Medford, OR 97501 |
| Event Type: | Meeting |
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Overview
Self-Coaching for HR Leaders: Do the Work Without the Work Doing You
Networking: 7:30am
Program: 8:00am-10:00am
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If you work in HR, you don’t just handle policies and paperwork.
- You hold hard stuff.
- You hear people’s stories.
- You deal with conflict.
- You sit in the middle when no one else wants to.
- You’re expected to stay calm, fair, and steady — even when things are messy.
And then you’re supposed to go to your next meeting or go home like none of that just happened.
This workshop teaches Self-Coaching for Leaders, simple skills you can use to build calm-confidence, support your well-being, and create better results at work and in life.
Most burnout doesn’t come from one big incident or change.
It comes from the slow build:
- Thinking about work long after you’ve left
- Replaying conversations in your head
- Feeling like you should fix things that aren’t really yours to fix
- Carrying stress from both sides and having nowhere to put it
Self-coaching helps you notice what’s happening inside you when the pressure is on and choose a steadier, more helpful way to respond.
Not fake calm.
Not “just be positive.”
Real calm-confidence you can use in the middle of real work.
In this session, you’ll learn how to use self-coaching:
- Before tough conversations, to get grounded and clear
- During those drive-by moments that can derail your day
- After hard moments, so the work doesn’t follow you home
This is about learning how to care without burning yourself out.
It’s about staying human without taking everything on or burning the relationship.
It’s about doing your job well - without the job slowly taking you with it.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
1. Identify the sneaky mental habits that drive stress and burnout
Spot the common habits that lead to over-functioning, emotional carryover, and exhaustion in HR roles.
2. Use self-coaching before, during, and after hard moments
Apply a simple self-coaching process to prepare for tough conversations, reset between emotionally charged moments, and let go of what isn’t theirs to carry.
3. Respond with calm-confidence in complex situations
Choose steadier, more effective internal responses in real HR scenarios to improve outcomes without absorbing unnecessary emotional weight.



